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Friends:

After two weeks in Rochester, we are finally coming home on Friday, December 2.

Thankfully, all of the tests the Mayo Clinic doctors have run have ruled out a life-threatening illness . We are extremely thankful for that news! The best the doctors are able to determine at this moment is that the major issues Kathi had over the summer and fall seemed to originate from an allergic reaction that went systemic, then got worse due to rebound effects from an increasing dosage of steroids to treat the original problem. The steroid treatments then caused their own set of problems and nasty side-effects.

Because Kathi is still weaning from steroids, the doctors are not able to determine the foundational root issues. They want her to continue to wean off the steroids and see if the original problems return once the steroids are gone. If they do return, then we’ll do more testing at that time.

The plan right now is to get Kathi back to full health and recover from the past six months. Her health has generally improved the past two weeks, but she still has a long ways to go.

I can’t thank our friends enough for your prayers, caring, support, and encouragement these past months. We have been loved in some immense ways. We are not sure where these next months will take us, but we do know that the Lord loves us deeply and He has used His people to care for us. A special thank you to Kathi’s friends that have loved and cared for her these past few months, and to Anna Counts for loving and caring for our children while we have been away. Many of our friends have come alongside our kids while we’ve been gone and we are so thankful for you.

Rob and Kathi

Long Week, Enjoying The Weekend, Busy Week Coming

Friday culminated a long week of tests, juggling to fit in work-in appointments,  three straight days of fasting blood work, electromagnetic nerve tests, and more. Today we are enjoying a down day of just sitting around the hotel lobby, my catching up on some work, and enjoying football.

Next week will bring three MRI tests, an endocrinology consult, a hematology consult, a vasculitis consult, and hopefully some initial diagnosis consults on tuesday / Wednesday. So far, the doctors are keeping their initial thoughts close to their vest.

We are anticipating having to return sometime in January when Kathi is totally off her steroid load.

Best Appointment Yet

Today has been awesome. Kathi’s CardioVascual disease doctor has taken the reigns on Kathi’s health issues and has ordered a slew of more tests and consultations. It was the most in-sync appointment we’ve had yet. The doctor was able to see things happen during our visit that we’ve only been able to verbally explain before and she asked all the right questions to pull stuff out.

We do our Occupy Neurology movement on Wednesday at 7 am, and then do the same with Hematology, Vasculitis, and Endocrinology on Friday and into next week. As of right now, we probably will not be home until next weekend, Dec 3. We are so thankful for Anna Counts loving our kids and caring for them.

Thank you for praying.

Great Day 2 at Mayo Clinic

We had a great day at Mayo today. Dermatology went extremely well, finally getting Kathi some help on all the allergic issues that have been at the foundation of this past summer. Lots of medicine changes to deal with what will likely be an on / off again set of challenges for the foreseeable future. Thankfully, the systemic mastocytosis has been completely ruled out. We have a CardioVasucular Disease appointment on Tuesday, then a very important Neurology appt on Wednesday. Pray for that Neurology appt – they have no openings until early December, but we’ve been told to camp out there anyway. So, Kathi and I are planning an Occupy Neurology movement beginning at 7 am on Wednesday for a non-violent demonstration :-)

Day 1 at the Mayo Clinic

Today was a long but good day at the Mayo Clinic. Kathi had a busy day of consultations and tests; and the schedule is set for next week: Monday through Wednesday calls for some cardiovascular workups, blood tests, dermatology, and more. We’ll then regroup on Wednesday afternoon to see what has been learned from these tests, and then determine next steps.  The plan for the weekend is to rest, explore Rochester a bit and maybe catch a movie. Thank you for praying.

A Daughter of the King

Over the past six months, my wife Kathi has been very ill.  Her doctors have a few clues as to the root problems, but they and we determined that she now needs to be seen by a team of specialists at the Mayo Clinic. We began that process over a month ago, and will be arriving in Rochester on Thursday, November 17th, for tests over the next four to seven business days.

This has been a very long six months for Kathi. She’s lost a lot of hair, weight, and has been on a boat-load of medicines to treat her symptoms. She is very tired and her body is weak.

Our church (Village Seven Presbyterian) and other friends have been amazing. Some of Kathi’s friends have been coming by every day for the past three to four weeks to sit with her, talk, read, and just serve us. Meals show up unexpectedly, as well as friends at midnight when an unexpected emergency found us in the ER. While Kathi and I are away, a dear soul is staying at our home and watching our children. My son’s principal and teachers seek him out to pray and encourage him. Friends dropped by this week to give us gift cards and money for our trip and expenses. Men email, call, and text me throughout the past weeks just to check on me. I dare say, I think we must be one of the most well-loved families around. Our church gets the Gospel. They live it out by loving others.

I’ll be posting here over the next five to ten days while we traverse the Mayo Clinic in hopes of finding Kathi some help. Please pray for wisdom as we navigate those waters and for the doctors and nurses we come into contact with. At this particular moment, my prayer for Kathi is that God heal her weak body – simply because she is a daughter of the King.

I’ll close with this thought from R.C. Sproul Jr.

“No place I’d rather be than beside my wife when she is frightened and in need. I suspect Jesus feels the same about His bride.”

 

Changes

It has been way too long since my last tech post, but there has been a lot happening in my personal and work life that has made following the mobile tech scene very difficult, and then posting articles about it even more difficult.

Back in April, when I started tech blogging again, I thought I 1) had the desire to throw myself back in to it, 2) had the energy, and 3) had the bandwidth. Over time, though, I found myself developing unhealthy habits that are necessary in following tech news, writing worthy material, and thus developing a loyal readership. I let it encroach on my family time, my work time, and start taking me away from the first things in my life.

It has been close to two months since I last posted a technology article. This time-gap was a blessing that God created, in that He allowed me to see where He wanted me to focus my time, my writing, and the passions He has called me to. During the last several months, I’ve done a lot of thinking and praying about what God would have me do with regards to technology writing, and I’ve decided to let it go in order to focus my energies in other areas. Technology will always excite me (I live in this world 8 – 5), but I no longer desire to follow it daily, write about it, offer up reviews, and put in the personal time that readers expect and deserve.

Going forward, the writing you will see on RobBushway.com will mostly be about stuff going on in my personal life – the kind of writing that was here before: stuff about my walk with Christ, essays, my struggles, my family, grace, and the gospel. If that stuff interests you, then stick around. If it doesn’t, then I still invite you to stick around. I can’t promise an article every day or even every week, but when I have something stirring within my heart that needs to get out, I’ll be working it out here.

I appreciate you allowing me the opportunity to dip my toe back in the tech writing arena for the past four months. A special thank you to Steve Seto who has been doing some great guest-posting the past several months.

Changes, Changes, Changes…

After 10 years of running my own programming company, I have accepted an offer from the National Junior College Athletic Association (NJCAA) to become their Director of Information Technology. I’m very, very excited about this change and opportunity. The NJCAA is an awesome organization serving junior colleges and athletes across the country. I’ve done website programming and technology support for them the past 10 years, and it is an honor to make the relationship more formal. I’ll now have more time and brain-bandwidth to work on some exciting technology that helps them operate more efficiently and celebrate the local athlete.

Why the change? Besides the obvious that the NJCAA has a tremendous future ahead of it and is an excellent organization to work for, there are a multitude of personal reasons for making this change. Operating a small business is hard and it is even harder on my family: I have a few large customers, but many small ones. Being spread across many customers makes it very difficult for me to “be where I am”.

The first step toward that goal started two years ago when I sold GottaBeMobile.com – a gadget news website that has since skyrocketed in popularity. That was a very good move for our family; however, after much prayer and seeking God’s will, I felt another step was needed.

By narrowing my focus from 25 clients down to my primary employer will bring a lot of stability to a family that desperately needs some. Sure, there are some negatives: bible studies during the day that I’ve had to cancel, less flexibility with my time during the day, along with a few others. However, as I’ve grown over the years, I’ve seen tremendous value in narrowing my focus to what I can do successfully in serving the people God has called me to serve. Of course, there are other reasons that factored into this decision, but that is the primary one.

So, what does this mean for Zoe Technologies? Effective August 1, I will shut down operations for Zoe Technologies. However, I’ll have Friday’s off and will be dedicating that day to doing side-projects for larger customers like GotQuestions.org, AllAboutGod.comCFACT, and FormConnections. I’m in a transition period right now having to reshuffle my schedule to prepare for August 1. Lot’s of projects to wrap up, work that has to continue and bills to pay, and exciting plans to begin to work on for the NJCAA.

Happy Birthday Maggie, A Poem For You

Margaret Kate Bushway
A Woman Loved and Desired by God

My life is one saturated with Grace.

My identity is found through it.
My desires are met in it.
My pain is made bearable because of it.
My suffering is made beautiful through it.
My joy radiates it.

I listen to hurts through it.
I cry in it.
I see people through it
I gaze into others eyes in it.
My heart exudes it.

My acceptance is found in it.
My forgiveness is due to it.
My shame is nothing because of it.
My humility is caused by it.
My standing with my Father is defined by it.

By grace, I am a woman loved and desired by God.

All my love,
Daddy
March 18, 2011

This Past Weekend

I’m getting a lot of questions about what happened to Maggie this past weekend, so I thought an update might be appropriate.

Background: Overall, Maggie has been doing very well over the past year. However, back in August,  Maggie started having a lot of headaches  – constant throughout the day and in tremendous pain. It turns out they were related to a drug she was taking. So, her doctors took her off. We didn’t know it at the time, but the drug she was on was also helping to stabilize most of the tremors Maggie experiences. Left unchecked, these tremors build up and then end up putting her in the hospital with non-stop seizure activity. Not a good thing.

So, from August through this weekend, her tremors have been slowly getting worse and we couldn’t figure out why. Maggie woke up on Saturday ready to go on a Youth Retreat and was tremoring more than usual, but we chalked it up to low blood sugar, nervousness, etc and hoped that it would pass. As the day wore on, Maggie had difficulty coping with the sensory issues related to the retreat, which in turn made it next to impossible for her to sleep. Maggie shook all night while trying to get to sleep. Kathi was next to her the whole time.

On Sunday, Kathi called and told me what was going on. As much as Maggie wanted to stay and do “normal teenager things”, I knew it wasn’t safe for her. We needed to get her home in a quiet place and then get her to a doctor as soon as possible. Otherwise, she would have ended up in the hospital for several weeks. So, the girls and I drove up to Winter Park and got Maggie and Kathi. That night, Kathi and I started talking and thinking about what all had changed over the months, and we began to tie it back to the drug her doctor took her off of. That evening, Maggie slept for 12 hours, the most she has slept in months. Being in a quiet place does wonders.

Long story short – we got Maggie to the doctor on Monday afternoon and they started her back on a similar drug that we hope will not have the negative side effects of constant migraines. We’ll wait and pray to see how God works through this.

The difficult part is that this is Maggie’s life for the foreseeable future…a rollercoaster of ups and downs, living in shades of gray, not healed but living. Maggie is living in those shades of gray, though, by grace alone to the glory of God

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